The Menendez Brothers Part 3

Broadcast into millions of homes, the Menendez trial became something bigger than a murder case. It was television. Tabloid fodder. Even comedy material. But when trauma turns into spectacle, what gets lost? In Part Three, we trace how the case was flattened into a punchline, and why, 35 years later, it demands a different look.

Please be aware that today’s episode contains descriptions of gun violence and sexual assault. Please take care while listening.

A full transcript of this episode is available here.

“Lyle Menendez (second from left) and his brother, Erik are flanked by their attorneys Gerald Chaleff (left) and Robert Shapiro, in Beverly Hills Municipal Court in 1990.”
“Jose and Kitty Menendez are seen here in this undated family photo.Courtesy Brian Anderson.”
Still image from the SNL sketch about the Menendez Brothers trail.
“David Conn, a prosecutor, delivering his closing argument in the penalty phase of the brothers’ trial in 1996.Credit…Nick Ut/Associated Press.”
Mug shots of Lyle (left) and Erik (right) Menendez taken in 2023.”
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Audio Used:

YouTube: Menendez Brothers 911 Call uploaded by Menendez Case.

YouTube: News Coverage (1990-1996) – Menendez Brothers Trials uploaded by menendeztrials.

YouTube: The Menendez Murders | That Was the News Then: Episode 5 uploaded by FOX 5 New York.

YouTube: ABC NEWS – May 17, 1990 – The Menendez Brothers uploaded by menendeztrials.

YouTube: The police were wrong about the Menendez Brothers murders: Mob ties and a pro hit KCBS-2 8/22/1989 uploaded by UCLA Irv and Xiaoyan Drasnin Communication Archive

YouTube: Why the Menendez Brothers Say They Killed Their Parents: Part 1uploaded by ABC News.

YouTube: Cousins Who Lived with the Menendez Family Say the Brothers Were Abused upload3ed by Menendez Case.

YouTube: CA v. Menendez (1993): Erik Menendez Takes the Stand in Murder Trial [Part 1] uploaded by COURT TV

YouTube: CA v. MENENDEZ (1993): Lyle Menendez Takes the Stand (Part 1) uploaded by COURT TV.

YouTube: Erik Menendez Direct-Examination | Part 2 uploaded by menendeztrials.

YouTube: ‘The Mirror’: Erik Menendez Testifies About How His Father Threatened to Kill Him After He Ran Away uploaded by Menendez Case.

YouTube: Lyle Menendez Direct-Examination – Part 3 uploaded by menendeztrials.

YouTube: Menendez Brothers Interview with Barbara Walters (1996), uploaded by Menendez Case.

YouTube: August 20, 1989: Erik Menendez Talks About the Night That He and His Brother Killed Their Parents, uploaded by Menendez Case.

YouTube: The Menendez Trial – Saturday Night Live, uploaded by Saturday Night Live.

YouTube: In Living Color: What If the Menendez Brothers Were Black? Uploaded by Menendez Case.

YouTube: 1994 Oscars: Whoopi Goldberg’s Joke About the Menendez Brothers, uploaded by Menendez Case.

YouTube: Kathy Griffin’s Jokes About The Menendez Brothers, uploaded by Menendez Case.

YouTube: References to the Menendez Brothers on TV Shows uploaded by menendeztrials.

YouTube: Jay Leno Pretending to Fundraise for the Menendez Brothers, uploaded by Menendez Case. 

Sources Used: 

ABC News Studios: Truth and Lies: The Menendez Brothers. 

R Street Institute: The Menendez Brothers: Crime, Trauma, and Evolving Perspectives on Abuse and Justice by Jillian Snider.

NPR: The Menendez brothers are one step closer to freedom. What to know about their case by Rachel Treisman and Alana Wise.

NPR: Erik Menendez says Netflix show is full of ‘blatant lies’ about him and his brother by Juliana Kim.

Netflix: The Menendez Brothers.

ABC News: Menendez brothers timeline: From the 1989 murders to their new fight for freedom by Emily Shapiro.

Los Angeles Times: THE MENENDEZ BROTHERS : Jose Menendez Gave His Sons Everything. Maybe Even a Motive for Murder. By John Johnson and Ronald L. Soble.

Vanity Fair: The Menendez Murder Trial by Dominick Dunne.

Vanity Fair: Nightmare on Elm Drive by Dominick Dunne. 

UPI: Erik Menendez broke into tears as he testified in… by Tracey Venegas.

Biography.com: Who Was Kitty Menendez, the Menendez Brothers’ Mother? By Tyler Piccotti.

Biography.com: Why the Menendez Brothers Killed Their Parents by Biography.com Editors and Jordan Zakarin. 

UNITED STATES COURT OF APPEALS FOR THE NINTH CIRCUIT: Appeal from the United States District Court for the Central District of California.

Inside the story of the notorious Menendez brothers case by Alicia Tejada.

Los Angeles Times: The Menendez brothers spent decades fighting for freedom. Why they suddenly have a chance by Salvador Hernandez, Hannah Fry and Richard Winton.

Los Angeles Times: Menendez Murdered Mob Style : Killers Intended to Send a ‘Message,’ Police Source Says Ronald L. Soble and John Johnson.

People: The Surprising Reason Why the Menendez Brothers Went on a $700K Shopping Spree After Murdering Their Parents by KC Baker.

Los Angeles Times: Slain Entertainment Executive : Jose Menendez’s Conflict and Controversy by Michael Cieply.

IMDB: Jose Menendez Biography.

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