
In the summer of 1989, wealthy media executive José Menendez and his wife, Kitty, were found dead inside their Beverly Hills home. The brutality of the crime was shocking enough, until the truth came out. Their killers weren’t intruders. They were their sons, Lyle and Erik. In Part One, we begin unraveling the story of a family that looked perfect on the outside, but was breaking apart from within.
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Please be aware that today’s episode contains descriptions of violence and and brief references to sexual assault. Please take care while listening.
A full transcript of this episode is available here.
Action Items Related to Today’s Episode:
We talked a lot today about athletics and how central sports were to the lives of Lyle and Erik. So I want to turn that focus into support for a cause doing powerful work: The Army of Survivors.
I was honestly stunned to learn that nearly 13% of student-athletes experience sexual violence in sports. That’s absolutely heartbreaking to me—and it’s exactly what The Army of Survivors is working to change. They offer resources, education, and advocacy aimed at protecting athletes and reminding them that they always have the right to safety.
They’ve played a big role in getting new legislation passed, and they also created something called the Compassionate Coach® program—a trauma-informed training to help coaches create safer, more supportive spaces for their athletes.
If you want to learn more, get involved, or donate to support their work, head to thearmyofsurvivors.org.
Let’s stand with survivors—and work toward a future where every athlete is protected.
Audio Used:
YouTube: Menendez Brothers 911 Call uploaded by Menendez Case.
YouTube: News Coverage (1990-1996) – Menendez Brothers Trials uploaded by menendeztrials.
YouTube: The Menendez Murders | That Was the News Then: Episode 5 uploaded by FOX 5 New York.
YouTube: ABC NEWS – May 17, 1990 – The Menendez Brothers uploaded by menendeztrials.
YouTube: Why the Menendez Brothers Say They Killed Their Parents: Part 1uploaded by ABC News.
YouTube: CA v. MENENDEZ (1993): Lyle Menendez Takes the Stand (Part 1) uploaded by COURT TV.
YouTube: Erik Menendez Direct-Examination | Part 2 uploaded by menendeztrials.
YouTube: Lyle Menendez Direct-Examination – Part 3 uploaded by menendeztrials.
YouTube: Menendez Brothers Interview with Barbara Walters (1996), uploaded by Menendez Case.
YouTube: The Menendez Trial – Saturday Night Live, uploaded by Saturday Night Live.
YouTube: In Living Color: What If the Menendez Brothers Were Black? Uploaded by Menendez Case.
YouTube: 1994 Oscars: Whoopi Goldberg’s Joke About the Menendez Brothers, uploaded by Menendez Case.
YouTube: Kathy Griffin’s Jokes About The Menendez Brothers, uploaded by Menendez Case.
YouTube: References to the Menendez Brothers on TV Shows uploaded by menendeztrials.
YouTube: Jay Leno Pretending to Fundraise for the Menendez Brothers, uploaded by Menendez Case.
Sources Used:
ABC News Studios: Truth and Lies: The Menendez Brothers.
Netflix: The Menendez Brothers.
Vanity Fair: The Menendez Murder Trial by Dominick Dunne.
Vanity Fair: Nightmare on Elm Drive by Dominick Dunne.
UPI: Erik Menendez broke into tears as he testified in… by Tracey Venegas.
Biography.com: Who Was Kitty Menendez, the Menendez Brothers’ Mother? By Tyler Piccotti.
Inside the story of the notorious Menendez brothers case by Alicia Tejada.